Aspects of this construed survival paradigm are subjective experiences and opinions about what determines wellness, success, appropriateness, happiness, etc. The key word here is "subjective".
Wellness, success, appropriateness, happiness, etc. are subjectively perceived; possibly different or uniquely experienced by the individual people, cultures, etc. of us.
The opportunity is to practice being more open minded, curious, exploratory and know that it's okay to focus more of our attention on minding our own business so that we can be more well, successful, appropriate, and happy in whatever reality we are creating for ourselves.